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Firefighter Rob Parsons thought he had the right life – dwelling in an enthralling residence along with his lovely new spouse and the newborn daughter they each adored.
However his world got here crashing down at some point when he was at work and logged on to their canine cam to test on issues at residence solely to seek out his spouse Facetiming one other man – and getting their child to name him ‘Daddy’.
Rob, 34, and his police sergeant spouse loved had a whirlwind romance after assembly simply earlier than lockdown. They obtained engaged in Christmas 2021 earlier than welcoming their youngster the next 12 months.
But Rob claims his spouse, who MailOnline has chosen to not identify, had been in a secret affair with a colleague for 3 years and, whereas she signed Rob as father of her daughter on the start certificates, she knew all alongside the newborn was not his.
A DNA check later confirmed Rob was in reality not the daddy and he has since been minimize off from the little woman he spent months elevating and loving, unaware that she wasn’t his daughter.
Rob Parsons’ world got here crashing down when he found his police sergeant spouse (each pictured) – who MailOnline has chosen to not identify – facetiming one other man and getting their child to name him ‘Daddy’
Rob met his spouse (pictured) earlier than the primary lockdown and so they obtained married in March 2023
Rob was checking up on his pets (pictured) when he caught his spouse on the couple’s canine cam
A paternity check taken in July 2023 confirmed that Rob was not the organic father of the woman
Revealing his private tragedy to MailOnline, Rob mentioned he had been at work on that fateful day in June 2023 when the newborn was eight months previous and needed to test in along with his spouse who had been at a physician’s appointment.
Hours had handed and he heard nothing, which was uncommon, so determined to test the digicam he used to observe their two canines – a beagle known as Holly and their rottweiler Hector – to see if she had made it residence okay.
Rob mentioned: ‘As quickly as I turned on the digicam, I noticed my spouse sitting on the ground with our daughter on her lap on Facetime. She was saying “say thanks to Daddy for getting you the presents yesterday” then was saying “are you exhibiting Daddy your current”.
‘I re-watched that video most likely 100 occasions whereas I used to be at work checking what she mentioned. As quickly as she hung up, she texted me saying ‘all good, child’s simply being a ache’.’
Within the warmth of the second Rob responded to her instantly telling his spouse what he had witnessed – including: ‘it should be arduous for the newborn, with you calling me daddy after I’m residence – then when I’m at work you might be assembly along with her actual dad’.
Rob’s spouse bluntly denied that their child had one other father. She informed him ‘the newborn calls everybody Daddy’ earlier than explaining that she had been struggling as a brand new mom, and her colleague had steered they play ‘blissful households’ whereas Rob was at work to ease the burden.
Rob mentioned: ‘We had a standard, wholesome relationship. She by no means informed me she had any points. By no means informed me she was struggling. We clearly had the sleepless nights and countless tears as you do when you could have a new child however so far as I used to be involved that was being married, loving one another and having a new child child to cope with.’
Rob and his spouse (pictured) engaged in Christmas 2021 earlier than welcoming their youngster the next 12 months
When the newborn’s start was registered, Rob’s identify was on the start certificates as the daddy by his police officer spouse (pictured)
Rob made the surprising discovery whereas at work and checking in on the canine cam the couple had purchased for his or her beagle Holly and rottweiler Hector
Rob by no means had his suspicions however when he noticed the Facetime he remembered an odd message he obtained the evening earlier than his wedding ceremony from a person he did not know who requested him if he was Rob marrying the police sergeant.
When he confirmed he was marrying her, the stranger simply despatched his congratulations and mentioned ‘she’s an ideal woman’. Rob then requested his spouse how she knew him and she or he mentioned he was only a good friend from work.
For weeks Rob’s spouse continued to disclaim that he wasn’t the daddy, whereas he slept on the couch and his spouse took the newborn to see her dad and mom.
Finally Rob plucked up the braveness to be taught the reality and used a DNA check on the newborn. 4 days later it confirmed he was not the organic father.
After confronting his spouse – in entrance of each of their moms – Rob left the home and moved again in along with his dad and mom.
He later contacted the girlfriend of his spouse’s lover who informed him that the affair had been occurring for 3 years.
Reflecting on his ordeal, Rob mentioned: ‘I might inform my buddies simply think about essentially the most outrageous Jeremy Kyle story you could have ever heard and occasions it by 100. What has occurred, you could not make it up.
‘The very fact she had the audacity to satisfy up with him whereas I used to be at work and be a contented household, just for me to come back residence and for her to announce, “Daddy’s residence” is unbelievable.’
Finally in July 2023 Rob (pictured, along with his spouse) plucked up the braveness to ship off a DNA check. 4 days later it confirmed he was not the organic father
Rob made a criticism to the police claiming one among its staff had damaged the regulation for knowingly falsifying particulars on a start certificates – a declare his estranged spouse (pictured) denies
When the newborn’s start was registered, Rob’s identify was on the start certificates as the daddy. However he has had nothing to do along with her life for eight months – and he was not allowed to attend her first party.
He stays not sure of his rights to custody, as he’s not truly the woman’s father, and doesn’t need to make younger woman’s life difficult.
He mentioned: ‘I miss her [the baby] like mad. She is 15 months previous now. I might do something to see her once more however I’ll most likely by no means see her once more.
‘Irrespective of how a lot I really like her [the baby] I do not need to complicate her life. She would not need to have that complication in her life questioning who’s that random man who comes and sees me twice a month?
‘I might wish to assume I might recognise her if I handed her on the street however I do not know, I’ve not even seen an image of her in months.’
Rob has not been allowed to see the newborn since he break up up along with his spouse (pictured)
Rob additionally mentioned his spouse (pictured) had damaged the police’s code of ethics, however the criticism was rejected
It affected all Rob’s household, particularly his dad and mom who have been fortunately serving to take care of their first granddaughter.
‘My dad is in his seventies, and it was the primary time I ever noticed him ball his eyes out,’ he mentioned.
Rob was pressured to take six months off work. ‘I used to be going to sleep hoping I would not get up. I wasn’t suicidal, however I needed to die,’ he mentioned. ‘I wasn’t suicidal as a result of I knew my spouse had taken away a granddaughter for my dad and mom, I wasn’t going to allow them to take away their son as effectively.’
For the reason that couple’s break up, Rob has been couch browsing and staying with buddies. Their beagle Holly, who Rob’s spouse had earlier than assembly him, needed to be put down.
Their rottweiler Hector, who was rescued from the RSPCA at six-months-old by the couple after they have been collectively, resides along with his mom.
In making an attempt to get his associate to take some accountability for her actions, Rob made a proper criticism to the police claiming one among its staff had damaged the regulation for knowingly falsifying particulars on a start certificates, a declare his estranged spouse denies.
He additionally mentioned she broke the police’s code of ethics, however the criticism was rejected.
‘I’m nonetheless in disbelief about how blatant she is along with her mendacity and sticking to an unbelievable story and the way she has acted after being discovered,’ Rob mentioned.
His estranged spouse declined to remark.
